Anonymous asked: so this guy who i'm best friends with *friends with benefits* and i have done everything but sex and anal, we want to take it to the next level and i feel like i'm ready but other times i feel like i just want to get it over with. he's going into his senior year so it'd probably be good if he got it out of the way too. but i feel like my vcard is sooo special, he does too(we're both virgins) and soo i just don't know if i should give that to him on his birthday which is coming up next week. i'm nervous and scared. but i do want to do it. and i trust him with a lot so it's not just some random. but yeah, should i? i'm going to be a junior btw

Well if your having second thoughts about it, then no! You shouldn’t have second thoughts or you know nervous to do it, that means your not ready and want to go all the way yet, but it is up to you hun.